Skill 3: Spiritual Smarts
Agreements often come to us when we least expect it—when we’re young, vulnerable or weak.
A few agreements that we can make with our Enemy (Lies)
“The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy….” (John 10:10a NLT)
- I can’t forgive myself for ___________.
- I can never get it right.
- I’m a loser or failure.
- It’s impossible to ever get ahead.
- Love always leaves.
- I am not worthy of love.
- No one can be trusted.
- I’m on my own.
- Life is up to me to make happen.
- I will never be poor like my parents.
- I’m average.
- I am ugly (or this part of my body is ugly).
- I can’t forgive them for __________.
Agreements that we can make with God and Scripture (Truth)
“…My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.” (John 10:10b NLT)
(The following scriptures numerically correlate with the agreements that our enemy tempts us to make (above) and will serve as truth-filled rebuttals to those lies. We wield Scripture as a weapon against our Enemy and his agreements, just like Jesus did in his wilderness testing.)
- “…He has removed [my] sins as far from [me] as the east is from the west” (Psalms 103:12 NLT)
- “…[I am] more than [a] conqueror through him who loves [me]” (Romans 8:37 NIV)
- “The Lord will make [me] the head, not the tail…the top, never at the bottom” (Deuteronomy 28:13 NIV).
- [I] will be blessed when [I] come in and blessed when [I] go out (Deuteronomy 28:6 NIV).
- “nothing can ever separate [me] from God’s love (Romans 8:38 NLT).
- I praise you [God] because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; [I am one of] your works [so] I am wonderful, [worthy of love], I know that full well” (Psalm 139:14) NIV).
- “Even if my father and mother abandon me, the Lord will hold me close” (Psalm 27:10 NIV).
- “God has said, Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5 NIV).
- “The Lord himself goes before [me] and will be with [me]; he will never leave [me] nor forsake [me]. [I will] not be afraid; [I will] not be discouraged” (Deuteronomy 31:8 NIV).
- I have never seen the righteous forsaken or their children begging bread (Psalm 37:25 NIV).
- “[I am] altogether beautiful…there is no flaw in [me].” (Sol. 4:7 NLT).
- “For [I am] God’s masterpiece. He has created [me] anew in Christ Jesus…” (Ephesians 2:10).
- “[I will] love [my] enemies and pray for those who persecute [me], [because I am a child] of [my] Father in heaven…[I will] be perfect, [in this way] even as [my] Father in heaven is perfect” (Matthew 5:43-38).
One more question...
Did you identify any “agreements” you may have made? If so, please write them down in a convenient space below your story and label them "Agreements." (We will be using this list in an exercise we'll go through in Session 6).
If you did identify any agreements, let’s take a moment to specifically renounce them now. It would be beneficial to return to the prayer at the end of Skill 3: Spiritual Smarts (chapter 6) and pray it now. (I’ve included the prayer below.)
Thank you, Father for sending Jesus to die on the cross, resurrecting him and seating him on a throne in deep heaven. He has been given all authority in heaven and on earth. Jesus, thank you for liberating humanity with your own life. Please enter the captive and imprisoned places in my heart and free them now. Make my heart whole. Thank you for releasing me from the Enemy’s enslaving captivity. You have delivered me from the kingdom of darkness and transferred me into your kingdom of light. The Enemy has no more “legal claim” to me—my heart and my life. I renounce every, known and unknown, agreement I have ever made with the Enemy. [If you know of any agreements you have made, renounce them specifically now]. Today, I choose to make a new agreement with your Scripture, the highest level of law, and what you say about me. I give myself wholly over to you—my spirit, soul and body; my heart, mind and will—to live for you always. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
(There are also “”Spiritual Smarts” scriptures and prayers in the Appendix that will be very helpful in forming new agreements with what God says is true about you in Scripture.)